Along with asking to pass the stuffing, chances are someone at your Thanksgiving table will also want to pass on talking politics this Thanksgiving. Conversing about government affairs has always been somewhat taboo on the holiday, but now things have gotten even dicier. Arguing with relatives about whether or not Donald Trump should be impeached could lead to a stressful meal. Ever since Trump has been president the majority of people have tried to steer clear of politics on turkey day. Huffington Post writes:

In a new HuffPost/YouGov poll, just 28 percent of those planning to be part of a Thanksgiving gathering say they’re even somewhat likely to discuss politics, with 11 percent predicting they’re at least somewhat likely to get into a fight about it. But only 4 percent think such a tiff is very likely.

Similarly, only 4 percent say they’ve changed their plans at all to avoid politics wrecking the festivities, although that small group detailed plenty of drama they have to deal with in the era of President Donald Trump.

USA Today spoke with Lizzie Post, co-president of the Emily Post Institute and great-great-granddaughter of Emily Post:

If politics does come up and you’d rather not deal with it, Post recommends clearly setting your boundaries. 

“There’s nothing wrong with saying in a really polite and friendly way that ‘I hope you’ll understand, but I’ve actually decided to take a break from politics this holiday,'” Post said.

Post added “Keep redirecting that conversation…You can always appreciate someone else’s interest in a topic without engaging in it.” The AP talked to Elaine Swann, a Los Angeles-based etiquette coach:

If the debate starts getting out of hand Thursday, Wright said, someone will probably defuse things by asking: “How about those Bengals?”

Cincinnati’s hapless pro football team is winless this season.

The bottom line, Swann said, is cherishing the time together.

“Although we may not agree politically, the one thing we are is family,” she said. “The big takeaway that I encourage everyone to have is that love for family, because tomorrow is not promised to us, and you never know who is going to wake up the next day and who is not.”

As for what a politician thinks about this, Senator Bernie Sanders is weighing. He thinks it’s okay to bring up politics but just talk about things where you know there is common ground.