Imagine attending a listening session where you need to have notes to remind you to listen.  Check out this photo from today’s listening session on gun violence at the White House.  It’s a small cheat sheet Donald Trump is holding to remind “45” what to do. Or perhaps better put, a list of compassionate things to say for someone who normally eschews empathy.  Some poor aide had to write out thoughts that Trump was obviously unfamiliar with like “I hear you” and “what can we do to make you feel better.”